So we were in this spot back in September when Joe got diagnosed, and then by November we needed to figure out where to do his immunotherapy and whether surgery was even on the table. Stage III pleural is no joke and honestly I was terrified we'd picked the wrong place.
What I learned pretty fast is that it's not just about the name of the hospital. I know that sounds obvious but I mean it. We live in Tampa and our first oncologist was fine but he wasn't really pushing any multimodal approach, it was just going to be chemo and see what happens. So we drove up to Jacksonville to talk to another team, and the difference was night and day. The Jacksonville doctor actually had numbers on how many mesothelioma cases they see per year and what their outcomes looked like. I'm a retired teacher so I know when someone's just reading from a script versus actually knowing their stuff.
Three things that made the difference for us. First, did they do multimodal treatment and had they actually done it multiple times. Second, ask about their surgeon if surgery is possible. Joe's team in Jacksonville had a surgeon on staff who specializes in pleural cases and works with the oncology team before and after. Third, and this one surprised me, ask if they have experience with the specific immunotherapy drugs your person is getting. We learned that some centers rotate through what they use and others stick with protocols they know cold.
The waiting between appointments was brutal and honestly I cried in the car a few times driving back from consultations because you're sitting there thinking this might be the place that saves your husband's life or the place that wastes time. But yeah we went with Jacksonville and Joe started treatment there in November.
I guess my point is don't just go to the biggest cancer center. Go to the place that has actually treated a lot of meso cases specifically and can show you the numbers...